My Dream Man.

My dream man exists someplace. I haven't encountered him yet. Or, have I? I don't have a lengthy list of requirements for him. Just a few simple requests and two demands.
My Demands are simple. He absolutely must love not only me, but my son as well and he must be supportive of us, however I don't expect him to support us.
My requests are fairly simple as well. The first is that he understands my Porphyria, and its limitations. The second is that he challenges me to become a better person, and expects me to challenge him in the same way. He will be strong, and good at making decisions without being overbearing; decisionmaking is a weak point for me. He will be loving, and not demanding. He'll be gentle, but not weak. He will have the desire to be a family man. He will want children, and love my son as his own. He won't be afraid to share his heart with me, but he doesn't have to wear it on his sleeve. As a matter of fact, I'd prefer if he didn't. I'd prefer a mate who can speak to me, on not only a romantic level, but an intellectual level as well. I want an intelligent man, whether he is classically educated, or self educated. A lust for learning is important, and is something I wish to instill in my son. What better an example than parents who have a zeal for learning? Oh, and hopefully he'll be able to fix cars as well, because I certainly cannot!